“In itself, there is never anything hurtful or incredible about getting rejected. It is hurtful only if we think people and events must conform to our wishes. If we have concealed hopes and demands, we will have dissapointments. If we have no unconscious wishes, disappointment is impossible.
Besides, when someone rejects you or your offereings, you should shout for joy, for now you are free of him or her, and owe them nothing: