Always remember who you are and where you are, are different things. You are not stuck, it’s simply time for a detour.
During our time as little people on this earth, very often, we see a glimpse of who we want to be in other people. I can think back and see snippets, quick flashes of images I memorized in my head of woman I admired and who I aspired to be. Sometimes these woman were just illusions of what I thought it was to be an important adult and sometimes these woman were symbols of freedom and self expression. Sometimes these woman were symbols of strength, discipline and success.
If you think back to when you were a little child, I’m sure you can imagine what I am referring to. I recall many times thinking while traveling on the subway in my teens on route to my internship at Time Warner how beautiful and successful some of the woman looked. It was the peak of the 80’s power suit. I was in awe of how focused they were and how strong they looked in their carefully coordinated outfits and how beautifully their makeup was applied. I would always think to myself, will I ever get there. Is that even palpable? Then one day 10 years later, while working at a Hedge Fund in NY, it hit me, that I was that woman but I now had other aspirations… and thus, that is how life is.
Many times we reach points in our life that we have aspired to and don’t give ourselves the proper credit or pat on the back. We don’t consciously acknowledge that we worked towards something and we earned it and so this is a moment to be proud of. Despite the fact that we will have many aspirations in life, and some may seem nonessential to us as we become wiser in life, it is still important to acknowledge these accomplishments.
Recognizing that we have grown and that we have completed something we set out to do strengthens our self worth. Continuously setting new aspirations, will continue to polish us, to hone our wisdom and hopefully make us better humans. And the world could always use better humans. xo
Modelling my jewels is a dear friend Lauren Prince. Taken at Gould’s Inlet, SSI GA May 2016.
There are so many, but let’s start with these. Quotes or reads from my 2015 studies that have influenced me and shown me a light along my path. 🙂 Happy New Year 2016!!
The blog title is my number 1 quote because although very simple, it’s also very deep.
- If you don’t put meaning into your life, the result is, your life will have no meaning. The only way your life will have satisfying moments is if you seek to do things and spend time with those that feed your soul.
- You are the owner of your own karma. There is no surprise here, but also remember that the biggest importance with karma is intention. What was your true intention behind an act. Catching the flu isn’t the result of your karma coming back to get you. It’s simply the result of coming into contact with the flu virus.
- People often meditate hoping that some light will go off and give them the answers they are seeking. You meditate not to get things but to let things go. Meditation is a way to let go of the baggage that we often carry around. It’s a way for us to have 10 minutes of non activity. It gives our brain a rest so that we can refresh and begin again with a free and less heavier mind.
- Often, our first response is to put someone down for doing something we don’t approve or feel is not helpful to the person. To really help someone or make progress in a situation, you must understand someone or something, from the mind of the person and empathize with them.
- Most of our lives, we feel shame and hide from our imperfections, feeling terrified that someone will call us on it and this discovery will be the worst possible thing. The truth is, there is a big freedom that comes from understanding our flaws. Once you understand, you can either embrace or improve them and that fear begins to disappear.
Model is our local Yogi and Dance Teacher, AshleyAnne Brown.
Article was inspired by the teachings of Ajahn Brahm.