It’s interesting how we have always been our own individuals yet we were able to bond and stay bonded despite many periods of pursuing our independent dreams. 2 little ladies, one of Irish background, one of Puerto Rican background who grew up with different traditions and different beliefs. Yet even as little ones, we always treasured the qualities of loyalty, integrity and kindness and continue to this day. When you teach your kids these qualities, they become capable of forming beautiful bonds despite having nothing obvious in common with another person. I guess we should thanks our parents for instilling such qualities in us 🙂
My friend and I spent some much needed time bonding on the couch and there was a moment when a really warm feeling came over me. It was the revelation that there was an ally in the room. Not to say that I have surrounded myself with enemies, for that could not be farther from the truth. But there is a difference between an ally and a friend and some can be both, which I surely have in this gal.
So, let’s look at this closer.
An ally knows you, the real you and would vouch for you at any given time. Sometimes, an ally knows you more than you know yourself and it’s so wonderful to have someone remind you of who you are, because we sometimes forget. Sometimes, we get lost in our own fog, in our own genuine attempts to compromise and get along with others, we lose some of ourselves in the process.
Spending time with someone who has known you for a long time reminds you of the strength and will you had before life’s struggles attempted to slowly chip away at your naive little sunshine.
Sometimes, spending time with an ally, is all you need to refresh. That beautiful, ambitious, driven, hopeful person is still inside you and sometimes, it takes an ally to to shake you up and remind you. Sometimes your ally is your mom or dad, sometimes a neighbor, a teacher or in my case, a dear friend from your old neighborhood in Sunset Park, Brooklyn. xo
Images above were taken by me. Model is Lauren Prince, my glamorous hippie, where Vanilla Clouds beaded bracelets. Available in my Vanilla Clouds Etsy Shop or locally here on St.Simons Island @ Infuse Yoga. xo