I hate it when people tell me it will happen when you least expect it because even if we aren’t consciously looking, when aren’t we wondering if love will find us? I find that sentence so hopeless and disempowering because I believe you need to fight for your love story. This isn’t as easy as it sounds because the only way you can find real love, is if you really know, love and accept yourself flaws and all. Only then, will you know what it is that you need from someone else to feel happy and balanced. It’s a lot of hard work, lots of lonely nights, and a ton of soul searching…. but it is so worth it. Taking the time to make your self the best self you can be, so that when you meet that special person….you can harmoniously travel together on your path of life.
Because afterall, what is the alternative? To base your life on society’s clock and be pushed into things when you are not ready. When does that ever work out right? Everyone learns their life lessons at different paces but don’t wait for things to fall on your lap. Seek growth, seek inspiration, seek to improve your life in every way. If you could just shut out all the voices around you and courageously listen to your internal voice, believe that you know what you need more than anyone else…and that it’s ok to want different things than your friends or family.
I honestly think you and I would be so much better off. xo